Hi Everyone!
I know what you are thinking--this "Frugal Friday" post isn't appearing on a Friday! And you are right! But that's o.k.--I am, after all, on vacation! And I just like the sound of "Frugal Friday," so that is what I am going to call these posts, no matter what day of the week I get them up! ;) I am sure I won't always post them weekly either, but I will post as I can, and I do hope that YOU will share with ME some ways that you are being frugal that week.
One reader last week shared how they try to not go too far either direction--either TOO frugal, or TOO spendy (I can make "spendy" a word, right?). I thought they had a very good point. To me, the word "frugal" is not a negative word but rather a positive one. But it IS very true that we must guard against extremes at either end. The way that I think of the word "frugal" is being careful with the resources God has given me to manage. I also think about how I can best use those resources to bless both my family, as well as others outside of my family either in my local community or even in overseas mission and humanitarian work.
ANYWAY, so I wanted to bring you a "Frugal Friday" today, sharing one way that I was able to save money in the past week. This is not EVERY way that I saved money--but rather just one that I really wanted to share especially because of the holiday season.
As you all know, this week was Christmas. I read something in the December issue of Better Homes and Gardens magazine--I read that the average person in the US spends $927 on holiday presents. In addition to that, it also stated that money is the number one cause of stress this time of year. Somehow, a holiday that is celebrating our Savior's birth just seems to me like it is wrong if celebrating that holiday ends up being a source of stress on us!
Tip #1--Pay cash for presents. O.K., so I do realize that some things may be ordered online, and you can't exactly pay cash for online purchases. But my point here is to not purchase it at all if you do not have the money in hand to pay for it.
Tip #2--Think about what presents you might be able to make. Often times, we can use our skills to create something nice for a loved one that they will value more than something purchased, and it is usually less expensive even if you do need to buy some materials with which to make it. Our daughter needed a tote bag for carrying her music books in. In the pictures here, you can see what I came up with out of recycling some old jeans from our son. I did purchase the music fabric that I lined the bag with as well as purchased the flower buttons--but the end result was a nice present for her that she likes and can really use, and it only cost me a couple of dollars to make. It was more the thought that counted--not the high cost.
Maybe you don't sew--but can you make some bath salts, or a plate of cookies, or something else that you enjoy?
Tip #3--Purchase or make your presents throughout the year. My sister is very good at this--keeping her eyes open for something that she knows a loved one will like. When she sees something on sale, she has this person in mind and is able to get them a nice gift at a good price.
Tip #4--Rethink the whole gift idea. Maybe your family might rather take a trip together, creating some special family memories together instead of buying gifts for each other. This way, time is your gift.
Well, those are the four tips that come to my mind. What tips do YOU have to add? What have you done in the past, or did this Christmas, to help be frugal on gifts and yet still show your love for that person? Share in the comments what you would add to my list!
~Susan





