Hi Everyone!
I wanted to share a few thoughts I have been having lately, and some nice resources that I ran across to help our little home school in a good direction.
First of all, we have a student in our home school (I won't name any names here, but let's just point out that we currently only HAVE one student in home school--ahem!) who does tend towards being a perfectionist. This--in and of itself--is NOT a bad thing. I am firmly convinced tht God made all of us with our unique blend of personality traits. However--
in this world filled with sin, each personality type does have it's positive as well as negative traits that we need to learn to overcome. With God's strength, that is.
Being a perfectionist has MANY positives in being able to know how things "should" be, and being able to quickly analyze things. BUT--one of the negatives tends to come out as complaining and criticism, even if the person does not feel themselves to be criticizing. THEY view themselves more as merely stating what they see as the facts. But it so easily slips into that slippery slope of complaining. . .
Anyway, I began to feel strongly in my heart that a certain little member of our school might need a bit of help in focusing on positive things, rather than seeing the negative. I have prayed about this, and God helped me remember a song from my childhood that is perfect for this situation. It is a simple message, but oh so powerful if we actually do it. So with that in mind, a quick YouTube search brought me to this version, and I have been dutifully starting our home school out each morning with this song ever since. While at first it was VERY difficult to get the ENTIRE student body to sing this song along with me, as I have continued playing this song each morning and singing along with it myself, a certain unnamed little girl does seem to be coming around and singing better and better with the song each morning. And with putting these messages into our minds each day, I am convinced that it will help good things grow. Anyway, if you would like to check out the same song, here is the link we are using:
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1Ox75f3HWBA&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D1Ox75f3HWBA
The second thing I wanted to share with you is along the same lines--but something I am using for myself during my own quiet time each morning, not something I am using in home school, though I certainly think it would also fit well in a home school setting. Anyway, this second thing is --quite literally--a list where I am counting my blessings. Nothing complicated. No precise rules. Just counting blessings--three blessings every day. My goal for the year is to count one thousand blessings. One thousand gifts from God. One thousand things that I might have otherwise breezed past in my busy day, but instead I am giving myself permission to slow down long enough to notice them. Long enough to list them. Yes, I am sure there will be some "repeats." That's o.k. If God gives me the gift of a sunrise today, is it any less of a gift if He gives me a sunrise tomorrow? I think not.
Anyway, while I realize we are already a couple of weeks into our new year, I would encourage you to also start right now and make a list of three things you are thankful for today. Tomorrow, just add three more things. Do you know that if you did this every day this year by the end of 2014 you would have listed one thousand ninety five blessings from God? What a beautiful thing to be focusing on, instead of all that may be "wrong" in your life. I read that people who keep a gratitude list increase their happiness by 25%! Wouldn't you like to be 25% happier than you are right now? I know I would take that any day! I already consider myself to be a happy person, but hey--one can always enjoy being even happier, right?
One of the resources I found to help me in this gratitude list is a free little set of cards, one card for each month. On these cards are listed some ideas of things to look for and record on your list. Again, these are not hard and fast rules, but just ideas so you don't keep listing the same one thing! Sometimes the ideas will be something like "3 things that are blue," or "a gift outside, inside, on a plate." Just a variety of different ideas, and I have enjoyed using the card for this month very much--I just look to find the date for that day, and then read what area is suggested for finding three gifts. Sometimes it is "3 gifts that you hear," and I focus on the soft purr of my cat, the lazy snore of our dog, the beautiful songs of the birds. Things that I might otherwise miss in my busy day, these ideas help me to slow down and notice.
If you are interested in printing off a set of these cards for yourself, you can find them free over at this site:
http://www.aholyexperience.com/joy-dares/
I hope you are each having a beautiful day today--and don't forget, count your blessings! :)
~Susan