I realize I have not been around here much lately. Part of that has to do with summer, and the business summer time brings to our family. Part of it has to do with different summer schedules, and things not being the regular routine that they are during the school year.
For those of you who know our family personally, you have probably heard already that my mom is currently in the hospital. One of those routine in and out in one day proceedures that did not turn out exactly as planned. One thing led to another, which led to another. . . as of this moment, she is still in the hospital, though we are starting to see some improvements which we are VERY thankful for. I do appreciate everyone lifting her up in prayer! Current "new" problem is problems with her heart, and the doctors are trying to determine the best medication for her to be put on to help with that.
Watching all of this unfold over the past several days has made me think of several things. Mainly, I have been thinking of true love--what true love really is. I think every little girl loves those fairy tales where they "lived happily ever after." The handsome prince comes riding in and swoops the princess (or soon-to-be princess if she isn't already one) off her feet and they ride off into the sunset together. Can't you just see it? The birds are singing, the bunnies stop their hopping around to watch the two lovers riding off together. Can't you hear the music in the back ground as well?
Well, I used to think this was true love. But as I have gotten older (I said older, NOT old!) I have changed my mind about what true love is. Instead, I now think that true love is seeing my dad reach out and hold my mom's hand when she is in the hospital bed getting ready for surgery. True love is him waiting at the hospital--even when he is not allowed to be with her--just waiting for those times when he will be allowed to be with her.
True love is not always pretty. It is not always music playing and birds singing. Sometimes it is helping to hold someone when they are throwing up. Sometimes the specific circumstances surrounding you are ugly--but the true love itself is beautiful.
Sometimes true love is nailed to a cross. But the beautiful thing about true love is that it never dies a forever death. Because true love is from the Father, and He is greater than death.
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condem the world, but to save the world through him." John 3:16,17
That--is what true love really is.
~Susan





