Monday, November 25, 2019

Thank you!

Hi Everyone!

Just wanted to update everyone on how my daughter's fundraising went for hurricane relief went!  I know I have been talking about it quite a bit, both on this blog as well as on other social media and in real life as well.  Alison had so many wonderful supporters who sponsored her playing in the Play-a-Thon, and even total strangers that supported her!  She was overwhelmed with the response to her video asking for support, and therefore she wanted to also make a follow-up "Thank you" video, both to share details of how the event went as well as to express her gratitude.  So that being said, here it is:




And I want to also express my own "Thank you."  Thank you for demonstrating to these children that they are NOT too young to help.  That they are NOT too young to make a very real difference. That in this world filled with tragedy, there are kind and good people out there who do what they can to make a difference.

~Susan

Monday, November 18, 2019

Frugal Friday! November 10-16, 2019



Howdy Frugal Friends!

How was your week?  Mine was good, on many accounts!   One of the most exciting parts was that on Sunday my daughter had her “Hope Twinkles” Play-a-Thon, which was a charity fund raiser to raise monies for hurricane relief in the Bahamas.  Specifically, a school in the Bahamas which suffered damage from the hurricanes, and some of the teachers lost their entire homes, as well as some of the student families the same.  The school, while damaged, is not damaged so much that they cannot operate—yet most of the student’s families are unable at this time to pay the tuition for their child to attend school.  The school does not want to refuse the children coming to school.  At this time in their lives, they need the steady, security of school even more than ever.  Yet, of course the school is unable to operate without any tuition money coming in.  SO—when my daughter’s music teacher learned about this school, Grand Bahama Academy, it became the focus of this year’s charity fund raiser.  This is the third year that “Hope Twinkles” has happened, and each year it has grown larger than the year before.
Hope Twinkles Play-a-Thon



The first “Hope Twinkles,” the children raised money for Hurricane Katrina relief.  Last year, they raised money for a school in Santa Rosa, California which was destroyed by the terrible fires.  And then this year, of course, was for Grand Bahama Academy hurricane relief.   With the Play-a-Thon, the children all solicit pledges from people who agree to either sponsor them for how long they play, or simply make a donation.  Last year, my daughter played for SEVEN HOURS that one day!  She knew that the longer she played, the more money she would be raising for the Santa Rosa school, and in her heart she wanted to raise as much as possible!  This year, however, while her heart was the same—she has suffered from a terrible tendonitis attack since last May, so she was not able to play as long as she normally would. In fact, her physical therapist told her that she was allowed to play for two hours, and that was it! 

So she did the best she could in fundraising, and decided to create a video this year which explained what the children were doing.  My niece set up a GoFundMe page which linked the video, and my heart was so touched as my daughter received some donations from people that were total strangers to her!  She also had several people mail in donations, marking her as the child they were sponsoring.  What a blessing!  The final numbers are still to be determined, as the music teacher has given the students until November 22 to collect and turn in all of their pledges, but from the numbers we have heard so far, the children have raised more than they have the previous two years!  I will be sure and update when I know more!  

But on to other frugal activities:  



*I accepted two boxes of bananas that my very kind nephew offered me!  We live just down the road from the college my nephew is attending, and evidently there had been some food leftover from a weekend event that the college had hosted.  The school was giving the food away for free, to whoever wanted it.  My nephew called me and asked me if I had any room in my freezer, as he knew I have an upright freezer.  I said that I did, and he brought over two large boxes of bananas!  We were delighted!  We have been enjoying them by indulging in smoothies several times this week, as well as banana ice cream, a cookie recipe that is sweetened with bananas (more similar to muffins, really, than cookies), as well as making home made granola which is also sweetened with bananas (as well as dates).  So as you can see, we can use up quite a few bananas, in a short amount of time!  

*I was able to use several Kohl’s coupons and order four pairs of wool socks from their web site at a price that works out to be $3.14 each pair.  I will use two of these for myself, and gift two of them to my daughter in her Christmas stocking.  They aren’t the Smartwool brand that I have been impressed with after trying, but the price was good and it will be nice to have a few pairs of wool socks instead of just one pair.

*We had a termite inspection done.  I consider this frugal because it can save MUCH money and grief if the termites decide to make lunch of your house!  And since we live in the South, termites are quite prevalent around here!  In fact, one of my hubby’s co-workers DID have the unhappy discovery of termites eating up part of his house!  We keep our house under a contract for termites, which works basically similar to insurance.  As long as we pay our contract to keep it active, if our house is discovered to have any termite damage, the company will repair the damage at no additional cost to us.

*I bought two books which will become Christmas gifts, as well as a covered casserole dish and an adorable three miniature milk bottles in a metal container at a thrift shop using my gift certificate from being a volunteer there.  After all the holiday decorations are packed away, I will use the milk bottles to hold flowers, either artificial in the Winter, or real in the Summer.


*I bought six silicone molds at half off at JoAnn’s Fabric Store.  I will use these for an Art project that I am doing with my daughter in our homeschool.  They will be long lasting as well, as they do not get used up with use, so we will have them for a good while.  My husband’s employer has some monies that they reimburse us for our homeschool expenses, up to a certain amount, so I will turn in this receipt and will be reimbursed for the entire expense.


*I ordered a Christmas present for our cat, using a $5.00 coupon.  Yes, a present for the cat!  But he is a very sweet and very old cat, and my husband—it REALLY was him, even though this is generally my pussycat—my husband started sending me links for heated cat beds, because our cat is so old—19 years best as we know, as he was a stray— and telling me that Pumpkin needs a warm bed because he is old and arthritic.  I did some looking around, and found a bed that was 50% off of the regular price, and was able to use the $5.00 coupon on top of that.  When I saw that I did not have the option of shipping it to the store to pick up, and I was going to be charged shipping to my house, I called the customer service number and simply asked if there was any way that I could receive free shipping.  I figured it never hurts to ask!  And I am glad I did, as the agent said they could happily do that for me, so it is on it’s way!  And if, by any chance, Pumpkin does not care for his new bed, I can return it to the local store for a refund.  I hope he likes it though!

Well, that’s it for my busy week!  What did YOU do to save money and bless your family?  Thank you to all who have shared, as I really love learning and hearing about what others are doing!

~Susan

Monday, November 11, 2019

Frugal Friday! November 3-9, 2019

Hi Everyone!

How was your week? Ours was good! It seemed like there were a lot of ways to save money this week, which is always a good thing!  And I have been writing down some of my activities anyway, so I can remember them a bit better, which is also good!

So here we go:

*I made home made pizza. It is not hard at all, but I confess that I kinda forget about it so do not make it super often. My husband and daughter would not complain if I made it more often, I am guessing, based on how many compliments I received on this meal this week!

I made it with white whole wheat flour for the crust, and piled on the veggies including zucchini, artichoke hearts, onions, olives, mushrooms, etc. I do not eat dairy, but for me anyway, I no longer miss cheese on pizza when I am loading it up like this! And I feel so much better, so that is what counts!

*My green tomatoes are ripening wonderfully! Yay! Go green tomatoes! 

I have been making sure we are using the tomatoes as they ripen. One meal I made with them this week was Garden Stack Potatoes. Basically, a baked potato baked and cut open, then layered with corn, green onions, shredded carrots, lettuce, tomatoes, red bell peppers, and a homemade “cheese” sauce that is made out of raw cashews or sunflower seeds, pimentos, lemon juice, garlic and onion powder, and salt. It doesn’t taste at all like “real” cheese, but we like it!

*I received a gift certificate for our local thrift store as a Christmas present since I am a volunteer there, and my daughter also received a gift certificate. They do not expire, so we will be able to use them slowly over time, as we find things that we need and are the right size.

*I stocked up on avocados at Aldis for 49 cents each. I have not seen them at this price for a long while now, so I bought extra to freeze. 

This is my first time freezing avocados, so we will see how it goes.  But I bought frozen avocado chunks at Aldi's this summer, and loved the convenience of being able to take just a little bit out of the freezer for my recipe, and not having to try to time the ripening avocado to when I made a meal, so we will see how it goes.  As they say, this is a test! 

*I bought some flowers for just $1.13 each! I wasn't looking or planning on adding more flowers to my garden right now--it IS, after all, November!  And the weather is a bit chilly for planting stuff in the dirt right now. . . but when I was at Walmart and found Stonecrop--which is a perennial flower, at only $1.13 instead of $7.00 each, I figured what did I have to lose?  So I bought six plants, and quickly planted them in the garden on one of the last warm days we had.  We will see how they hold up over the winter! 



*I traded in my daughter's blouse and bought the same exact blouse in a larger size at a consignment shop! This was hilarious to both my daughter and  myself. . . she has had this bright pink blouse.  It is not exactly her favorite color, though does look nice on her.  Well, she was growing out of it and it was beginning to be a bit tight on her.  We went consignment shop shopping to try and find some solid color blouses which she needs to wear for orchestra playing, and we found the EXACT same blouse for her in the next size up!  It is a Banana Republic brand, and I looked up online this blouse was $68.00!!!  At the consignment store they wanted $10.00--but then my daughter suggested that we take her too small blouse with us and see if they would take it in trade, and they did!  They gave us a $5.00 credit for the blouse we brought in, and I already had store credit from trading other clothes previously which paid for the rest of the new blouse cost.  Yay!  I told her it was her destiny to wear bright pink! ;) 


*I accepted some leftover spaghetti and sauce from my sister, so that was a free lunch for us today as well as free lunch for tomorrow, as we still have some left! 

*I also sent some Christmas presents with the same sister--who will be traveling to our older sister's house for Christmas time.  That means no postage costs to mail the gifts, plus I know the gifts will arrive in good condition.

Well, that's it for this week!  What did YOU do to save money and bless your family?  I would love to hear about it!

~Susan




Monday, November 4, 2019

Frugal Friday! Week of October 27-November 2, 2019

Happy November Everyone!


Can anyone explain to me exactly where October went off to?  I am sure it was just starting a day or two ago. . . So why does my calendar now say “November” on it??? Ah, well, the days are flying by indeed!

I kept a partial list of my “frugal happenings” last week.  Which means that I started the week writing things down—but then my notepad got buried on my desk and well, yes, nothing much was recorded on it towards the end of the week.  But I should at least get part credit, right? ;)

So on to my list—
Remember our Fall Break trip to the Smokies just a little bit ago?  Well, while we were there, we hiked in some pretty chilly temperatures.  So chilly, in fact, that my toes and my daughter’s toes were both freezing inside of our hiking shoes.  My ears also got pretty cold with the wind blowing at Clingman’s Dome, as I gave my daughter my ear warmers to wear. Anyway, back at our motel I remembered friends who have talked about how wonderful “Smartwool” socks are.  Evidentially, there is a factory in the town next to where I live, and every now and then they open up and sell factory seconds really inexpensive, or something like that.  ANYWAY, so at our motel with my numb toes and ears, I remembered overhearing about Smartwool socks, and all of a sudden the thought occurred to me that I might be able to get some from LLBean.  Now I know what you are thinking—LLBean is fantastic quality, and great customer service, but is NOT necessarily an inexpensive place to purchase things from.  And I would have to agree with you—unless—you happen to have some store credit with LLBean, which I do.  SO.  Right from our motel—since I was thinking about it—I called LLBean and ordered two pairs of their Smartwool socks, so I could have one pair for myself and one for my daughter.  Then I talked with the nice customer service lady about my cold ears, and she recommended some ear warmers so I ordered those as well.  I knew they wouldn’t help me on our Fall Break trip, but there is plenty of cold weather ahead of us this winter, so I figured we would still get lots of use out of them!
Above is the picture of the Smartwool socks that arrived this week.  Their price is around $18 each pair, but with my credit I received them free. Free is ALWAYS my favorite price!!!  


Then here is the picture of the ear warmers I ordered.  If I am remembering correctly, this was around $23, but again I received it free.  Yay for warm ears!

The next thing I did to save money is I picked ALL of our tomatoes—even the green ones, because we were predicted to get our first night of frost.  Sigh.  I am so happy for cooler weather—our summer high temps were way long this year, but I would be happy to have Fall last just a bit longer with nice cool days, before it moves into cold Winter weather!  But oh well!  At least I could try and save the tomatoes that were growing in our garden!  I have never picked green tomatoes before, but I know my parents have done it for years.  I guess I never felt like I had that many tomatoes left in the garden to pick—but this year we sure did! 


My fingers were numb from picking all of these!  I looked up on-line to see what the best way to ripen them would be, and read to lay them out in a single layer.  I cannot afford to have them all over my kitchen counters, as then I have no room to cook—but decided I could somehow use the shelves in the basement where I grow my garden plants from seeds.  So that is what I did!


I picked out all the tomatoes that were red or starting to turn red, and put them together so I could keep my eye on them and make sure to bring them upstairs to the kitchen when they were ready to eat.  I have never ripened green tomatoes before, so we will see what happens!

Another frugal thing that I did was I picked the last rose in my yard. It was just a tiny, delicate thing, but hey, a free rose is a free rose!


Last but not least, Saturday night our family went to our church barn party!  There was no cost to attend, except that I DID bring some vegan brownies to share with everyone.  We all had a WONDERFUL time!  Food, fellowship, laughter, singing, hay rides--very good times!  The only thing is that the weather was predicted to be a tad on the COLD side. . . . So I decided it was a perfect time to test out those Smartwood socks and the ear warmers! 


Both my daughter and I wore our new socks.  Both of us were impressed overall--our toes got a little cool, but not super cold like they were in the Smokies.  And it WAS really REALLY cold outside, especially as the sun went down!  Maybe two pairs of Smartwool socks would be better?  But I did like the one pair I had on.  And my ears were toasty warm!!!  So happy to have both of these items, even if the ear warmers don't exactly make me appear glamorous! At least my ears were WARM!


My daughter helped with the music by playing the violin.  I am so thankful she is at least improved after her terrible tendonitis.  Not over it completely, but improved enough that she can play a bit here and there.  My hubby also helped with the music, by playing the mandolin.  I helped with the music by NOT playing any instrument--trust me--it's better that way! ;) 


The barn was beautiful!  All the food is set up on tables inside the barn.  I am so thankful for the family that opens up their property to our church family to use each year.  What a blessing they are to all of us!


The social committee worked really hard on this party, and it was lovely, just lovely!  Beautiful setting, beautiful decorations, fun prizes for the children--gifts for adults to win as well!  So much fun!


This tractor was all set up, ready for the hayrides later in the evening.  I couldn't resist taking it's picture.  It reminds me so much of my dad, who has an antique tractor that he still uses to cut much of their ten acres of land, even though he is 83 years old!  When I was a girl, I loved to ride on the tractor with him!

So that was my week!  What did YOU do to save money and bless your family?  I would love to hear about it!

~Susan








Monday, October 28, 2019

Frugal Friday! Week of October 20-26, 2019

Happy Fall Everyone!

After summer hanging around way past it's time, we are FINALLY enjoying beautiful colors as the trees change colors, as well as cooler temperatures.  So cool, in fact, that the heater has been turned on several times. . . I always love those few weeks in the Spring and the Fall where we need neither air conditioner nor heater!

What have you been doing to save money lately?  I need to get myself back into writing out my list of things that I do as the week goes along, but for now these are some of the things that I can remember:

*We went on vacation, and only had the expense of our gas and our motel nights.  Our destination was the Great Smoky Mountain National Park, and the park itself is free to get in. :)  This, by the way, stems from an agreement that was made by the government when the land for the park was being purchased/taken away from the people who lived there.  It was actually written up that no admission would be allowed to be charged for the use of the park.  This--in hind sight--has been difficult for operating funds for the park, but great for families like us who are going to enjoy the park!

Our son who is in college four hours away from where we live also drove up and met us at our motel, and he was able to stay two of the three nights we were there.  We were not charged an "extra person" charge by our motel, so that was nice as well!  Our motel room had a mini fridge, plus a microwave.  I also brought up a little cooler box that we have which plugs in and keeps things cool, so it was like having two mini fridges to work with.  I was thankful to have both!  I had made as much food ahead of time, as I knew we were not going to be hanging out in the motel room but would want to be out hiking as much as possible! I had also received several strong hints that any food from home that was offered to our college son would NOT be refused! ;) So I had made some extra home made oatmeal bread, cornbread muffins, granola, etc. to send back with him to his apartment freezer. He was very thankful for all that I offered him!


We hiked to four or five different waterfalls, hiked several other trails, and spent the partly rainy day driving on the Blue Ridge Parkway.  The rain held off mostly until we were heading back to our motel on the freeway, so we felt very blessed!  We saw great herds of elk, which was our first time seeing elk in the park (our son had seen them before, but we normally go to a different part of the Smokies and the elk are not on that side).  The one splurge I did make was I purchased my husband, daughter, and myself a walking stick at the park store.  My son already had one, and my husband has one knee that sometimes gives him a bit of trouble, so I thought it might be a good thing to try.  Turns out that he--and the rest of us--all LOVE our hiking sticks!!!  They make such a difference, especially when walking back downhill!  I felt good about making the purchase, both because the price was no more expensive than my son had had to pay for his walking stick which he purchased not in the park, as well as the fact that I knew our purchase was helping to support the operating of the park, which is something I would like to see continue to operate for years to come.

*I helped my daughter film a video for a charity fundraiser that she is involved in.  Each year, my daughter's music teacher has a Play-a-Thon with her music studio students.  The children solicit sponsors to sponsor their playing time, and the money is donated to help an area that a disaster struck.  The first year, the children raised money for hurricane Katrina victims.  Last year, they raised money to help a school in Santa Rosa, California that was burned to the ground yet the school was trying to still operate.  Now this year, the children are raising money for another school that is in the Bahamas and was hit by the recent hurricanes there.  While the school itself did sustain some damage, the bigger problem is that several of the teachers lost every single thing that they owned when their homes were destroyed, and many families of the students who attend the school also lost everything.  Of course, with this situation, the families of the students are not able to pay tuition for their children to attend school.  The school administration does not want to tell the students that they cannot come to school.  So this year, my daughter and her fellow music students are trying to raise money simply for operating funds for this school, so the school can stay open and will not have to close.

In years past, I have run my daughter all over town, passing out posters advertising for the Play-a-Thon, talking with people, etc.  I am happy to do this, but have not seen a whole lot of people come and listen to the children play music as a result of our advertising.  So this year, I suggested that she try a different approach, and she planned out a fund raising video that we could post on-line.  So we are trying this method of advertising, and so far, I believe it is reaching more people than our previous years attempts.  This is frugal for me, because it saves me much gas and time and energy--yet it does still seem to be an effective way to advertise what the children are doing.  We have just under two weeks left until the Play-a-Thon, so we will know by then for sure if this was a good way to tell people about the fundraiser.  If you would like to watch the video my daughter made, you can follow this link to go to her fundraiser page.  Once on the page, click the "Read More" link, and it will open up and show the video.  The video is only three minutes long, but I think she did a great job making it and I am so proud of her kind and giving heart!  She has been counting her money to see how much of her own funds she can "sponsor herself" for!

Hope Twinkles Play-a-Thon 3

With all the talk now a days about how teenagers are selfish and only think of themselves, I am very pleased that my daughter and her friends--both teens as well as younger children--are instead trying to see how they can help others!

*I was able to add to my garden flowers with plants that were 75% off!  This was quite unexpected.  I was driving back home from our shopping trip to Aldi's the other week, when as I drove past our local nursery out of the corner of my eye I caught a glimpse of a sign out by the road in front of some potted plants.  I was already beyond the nursery driveway when my brain registered just a bit of what that sign said--it was either 25% off, or 75% off--I wasn't quite sure which one.  I started arguing with myself about whether I should turn around or not.  The traffic was pretty heavy that dime of day.  It is not a large road, but can be a pain to wait for the cars to clear so you can go the opposite direction.  I was heading home. . . it was lunch time. . . my husband would be home soon. . . BUT, if it WAS 75% off that the sign said, then I definitely wanted to go have a closer look!  I wasn't sure, but I THOUGHT I had caught a glimpse of some plants shaped kinda like roses out there in the parking lot.  SO.  I finally turned around and headed back.  Much to my delight and shock, not only was it 75% off, not only were there some roses there, but there were even some DAVID AUSTIN roses!!!  If you are a rose person, then you may be familiar with David Austin roses--they are shrub roses.  So these are not the tea roses that you plant if you are wanting to pick a bouquet of roses like you get from the florist.  These are roses that are full with lots of petals.  They grow on bushes.  They LOOK like old fashioned roses, but actually are bred to re-bloom unlike most old fashioned roses. And they smell like heaven!!!  Oh yes, I love David Austin roses!  Around 25 years ago, when we were living in California, I filled our small yard there with David Austin roses.  I hated having to leave them behind when we moved from there to Texas!  I have thought about planting more David Austin roses, but they are NOT cheap.  And I was busy with raising children.  And they are NOT cheap! And no weather is as perfect for growing them as California weather is.  And did I mention that they are NOT cheap??? In fact, this Spring, I and my husband had stopped at this same nursery and looked at the David Austin roses.  We had a spot in our garden that we thought we might splurge and tuck two David Austin roses into. . . but the price was $35 each rose! :0 My sweet husband was still willing to buy me two roses, but it was just SO much money. . . I didn't feel right about spending that much.  I know full well that there is a greater chance they will die on me here, and just do not want to spend $35 on something that I am not sure I can keep alive... . . If I spend less, I feel not so bad when (not if) a plant dies on me--know what I mean?

Well here I was, face to face with David Austin roses.  At 75% off.  Which brought them to a mere $8.75 each. Be still my beating heart! I could feel my pulse start to beat faster.  I started to drag out of the pile the first David Austin rose that I saw, parked it next to my daughter who was standing in the parking lot wondering if her mother had gone completely crazy, and told her to guard it while I went into the rose swarm to get another one.  She looks at me, probably wondering whom she was to guard this rose from, since there was exactly no one else except she and I pawing through these clearance plants.  But I ignored her wondering eyes and took off for the nursery to grab a cart so we could bring some of these beauties into the building and pay for them.


As I continued to pile roses into my cart, she looks at me and asks "Are these the colors that you want?"  I looked back at her and replied, "75% off IS my favorite color!!!" I found a total of three David Austin roses and carted them inside to pay.  I was floating on air, I am sure, as the cashier looked at me a bit sideways.  Maybe she cannot see the beauty in these straggly, thorny plants, but in MY mind's eye they are already full grown and blooming quite profusely all over my garden fence thank-you-very-much! :D I asked as I was purchasing them if their other roses closer to the building were also on clearance, but was told they were "only" 50% off at that point, but that if they didn't sell they would indeed also be placed at 75% off.  I will leave you with one guess as to who just might have visited the nursery several more times, whenever I had another errand that took me that direction. . . In the end, I was able to bring home a total of six roses--five of them David Austin roses, and on that is a different breeder but also a shrub rose.  I am hopeful that at least SOME will live.  I am sure some will not.  But the way I look at it, do you want to kill a $35 rose, or kill a $8.75 rose?

WELL, those are my three big things that I have been doing recently to save money!  What have you done?  I would love to hear how you are blessing your family!

~Susan



Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Hope Twinkles Play-a-Thon #3!

Good Morning Everyone!



I just wanted to take a few minutes to share what my daughter Alison is up to.  For the third year in a row, her violin teacher is hosting a Play-a-Thon to raise money for a needy project.  The first year, the money raised through the Play-a-Thon went to help hurricane Katrina victims.  Last year, the teacher found a school in Santa Rosa, California that was burned in the wildfires that swept through there, and the money went to help rebuild the school's music program.  Now this year, the Play-a-Thon will be raising funds to help a school in the Bahamas that was damaged from the hurricanes that went through there.  In addition to physical damage to the school, several of the school's teachers lost everything they owned because of the hurricanes, and many student's families are no longer able to afford the tuition money to send their children to school.  The school administration does not want to turn away the students, and so they are trying their best to operate even without any tuition payment coming in.  They desperately need funds for keeping the school open, while the island population literally rebuild their homes and livelihoods.

Yesterday, as a school project, Alison filmed and edited a short video telling about the Play-a-Thon and inviting anyone who would like to sponsor her playing in the Play-a-Thon to do so.  Shortly after posting the video, she had a request from someone who wanted to be able to donate funds online, rather than mail in a check.  So a GoFundMe page has been set up for sponsoring Alison, and we are so thankful for the donations that have already started coming in!

The lessons that Alison is learning--along with the other students in the music studio who will be participating in this Play-a-Thon--are life lessons that will stay with them.  Lessons that yes, bad things happen in this world.  But while you may not be able to "fix" all the bad, you CAN be a candle of light--you CAN do SOMETHING to help.  So do what you can.  Help cheer, help ease, help lift someone else's burden.  I think it is especially good for the students who are Alison's age to be doing this.  Too often we think of teen-agers today as self-centered, only concerned about themselves and not out helping others.  Well, it may be true that that is common in today's teens.  But it is equally true that there ARE other teens out there like these music students, who are doing their best to take the talents God has given them and use those talents to cheer and bless others.

I would so much appreciate if you would take the three minutes to watch Alison's video telling about the fundraiser.  And please, consider sharing her video with your own friends and family.  Alison has set herself a personal goal of raising $500 for hurricane relief. Let's support these kids as they do what they can to show love and caring in this dark world.

Alison's GoFundMe page can be found at this link:

Hope Twinkles Play-a-Thon #3


Thank you so much!

~Susan M.

Sunday, June 16, 2019

Frugal Friday! Week of June 9-15, 2019

Hi Everyone!

I am finally back to finish up the garden tour!  And I cannot believe that three weeks have passed since I wrote my part 1 post!  We have been just SO busy!  Mainly busy with non-garden things, but we have done a few garden related items, AND of course the garden has been growing!  But I want to give the next part of our garden tour, so will just pick up in the garden where I left off. . .




Above is one of the corners of the garden.  It is one of the three original garden beds that we put in, back before we started connecting them and put mulch in the pathways so we wouldn't need to mow.  This is right outside our bedroom window and our bathroom window, and I LOVE being able to look out at the garden every morning while I get ready in the bathroom!  Our bathroom is the tiniest  bathroom we have ever had, but being able to look outside at the garden and the sun rise more than makes up for the lack of size!  I have this garden bed filled with perennials, just a random collection of things.  My purple coneflowers I started from seed--they are in three spots in this bed.  There is a short purple spiky thing that I bought at Walmart on clearance but I have no idea what it is--sorry about that!  Almost completely passed blooming, so it is hard to see in this picture is a light pink gara, also from Walmart.  A week or so ago it was glorious.  It has these tall grass like fronds that get covered all up and down with lovely tiny pink flowers.  Then also passed are some basic yellow/orange day lilies that I bought from my niece when her club was doing a flower fund raiser.  Oh--I almost forgot!  Not sure if you can see it in the above picture or not, but in the corner farthest away is a purple day lily that I bought at Lowes in a little pot for $4.00.  I chose this pot on purpose, because when I looked at it I could see that there were actually FOUR tiny Day Lilys in that pot.  So after bringing it home, I carefully separated it in half.  My daughter got one half--with two small plants for her garden, and I planted the other group of two in my garden bed.  These are some of the ways to save money in gardening:  1) plant perennials! 2) plant from seeds 3) divide plants to get more for different locations


Above is not a very exciting bed--just one of the little "connecter beds" that goes from one 4x8 garden bed to another 4x8 garden bed.  In this case, this little bed has a cherry tomato planted in the back, and it DID have four sunflowers planted along the front edge.  That is, until the cute but bad little chipmunks dug up three of my four sunflower seedlings!  Yes, I replanted the ones they dug up and left to die--they didn't even EAT them, just dug them up--but they dug up the replants as well, so I gave up and decided to just be thankful for the one sunflower they choose to leave for me.  Once the sunflowers are larger, I think they don't get hurt by the chipmunks, but those rascals just dig in the same exact spot where the tiny seedlings are, leaving the seedling exposed to languish on top of the soil in the hot sun and perish before I find it and try to rescue it!  Oh well!  That's life in the garden!


So now we come to our kale bed.  See any kale growing in it?  Nope!  Me either!  This is what USED to be a lovely kale and collard bed, that was filled with beautiful green plants for us to eat.  We did eat  from it several times, but the problem is the netting we had to protect it from moths did not get put on on time (that is what the frame is for, to drape the netting over and clip it to the bottom edge).  This meant that the nasty moths got into our kale, laid their eggs, and hatched out their little devouring caterpillars and they ate and ate and ate and grew big and strong eating all that kale and collards . . . leaving no good leaves for us to eat!  Rather selfish of them, don't you think?  I mean, they COULD have at least SHARED!  So in an effort to at least try and save our plants--in this area, kale will actually grow through the winter time when the moths are not around to eat it--we went ahead and took the netting off.  It wasn't helping anyway, because they had already gotten inside it so it was actually rather keeping the moths IN with our plants instead of screening them OUT.  We also picked the plants bare of all the leaves and put them on the compost pile far away.  BUT, we left the plants there, because they will grow back.


They are already growing back baby leaves!  I emailed a gardener friend today, and asked him for advice on what we can do, and he shared of a powder that is safe and we can use it to dust the plants with.  So maybe we have a hope of saving the plants after all.  Time will tell!  We should probably do both--powder the plants AND put the screening back on top of them. . . I will have to talk to my hubby and see what he wants to do.

Next to our kale/collards bed we come to our second tomato bed.  This one is filled with Roma tomatoes.  These were all grown from some old seed that I had, started in the basement under regular shop lights back in February.  They are looking nice, and we already have quite a few green tomatoes on them!  I cannot wait for them to start to ripen!  Nothing--NOTHING at the vegetable section of the grocery store can beat a garden ripe tomato!  And since these were from seeds that I already had purchased a previous year, it felt like they were free!  The cages were from previous years as well.  They do rather start to fall over as the plants grow, but we do our best to pound in a stick here and there to help hold the cages up, and sometimes tie a few of the cages together!

You can also see in the above picture with the tomato bed where I have not finished mulching the pathways in our garden.  I waited to purchase more mulch until it went on sale the start of the summer for Memorial Day.  When it did go on sale at Lowes, I grabbed eight bags. So I have the supplies, but now I need more time--and unfortunately you cannot purchase that in bags at Lowes!


After the tomato bed with the Romas in it, we come to an empty bed. This is one that we just added in this year. My plan is for this bed to stay a vegetable bed, and not a flower bed.  This way I will have some beds to rotate my tomatoes around each year.  Previously we had them in the same location year after year, but we ended up getting some soil borne diseases and learned that crop rotation with tomatoes can help with that.  SO, the two tomato beds that we have this year are not the same two beds that I planted tomatoes in last year.  With adding this new bed in this year, I decided to try a bit of trench composting.  I had read about trench composting, where you basically--just as it sounds, dig a trench and bury your compost.  Only in addition to that, you are burying it right in the garden bed location where you are going to want it to stay.  So instead of piling it somewhere else in your yard and then later when it turns to compost transporting it over to your garden bed, it just breaks down right there in your garden, underneath the dirt.  So this empty unplanted garden bed was the perfect place to try out a bit of trench composting for the first time.  Both my husband and I decided that we LOVED trench composting!  One step, instead of several steps!  Then, after trench composting for about a month or two in this new bed, I noticed what you see in the above picture starting to pop up.  Upon closer inspection, I discovered they were not weeds, but cantaloupes!!!  True story--I had actually been considering doing trench composting in this bed for a while, and then covering it with plastic and planting some cantaloupes in the center of the bed.  Well, I guess I don't need to plant cantaloupes any longer, because the trench composting ended up accidentally planting them for us!  They are not nicely spaced in the center of the bed, but I think they will grow just fine where they are, and I will simply try and guide their vines to sprawl out towards the middle of the bed and not out into the pathways.  We'll see!


This garden bed above is also a new one we just added this Spring.  It is a work in progress, as you can see.  Right now, there are just three flowers planted in it, and we added the cardboard around the plants to help keep the weeds down.  Our plan is that once we get a few more flowers in the bed, we will mulch the bed and that mulch will cover the cardboard. But I wasn't sure how fast this was going to happen, because since I am wanting mainly perennials in my garden they do cost quite a bit more.  WELL, I had a happy surprise happen to me last Friday!  I was at Walmart, and my habit is to always start my shopping by swinging by the plants and especially to look on the Clearance shelves, or as I call them, the "Dead plant shelves" to just see if there happens to be any perennials.  Most of the time there isn't, but once in a while I find one or two.  Well Friday was my day!  I discovered tons of plants on the Clearance rack!  And the nice thing for me was there were lots of perennials and while they WERE quite wilted, they really did not look all that dead to me.  In fact, my hubby who was with me, and I both thought a nice drink of water would revive quite a few of them. . . AND most of them were marked down from $7.88 to $1.72!!!!  So we happily filled a shopping cart with them. In all, with tax included we "rescued" thirteen perennials and paid only $26!  What a blessing!  At full price, that would have been $102.44 (plus $10 for tax) worth of flowers!  You can see them lined up in the above picture, just next to the garden bed and a log is helping to hold them up as we were having a windy day.  We do not have them planted yet, but have been watering them and they have perked up very nicely and I think already look very beautiful--and they will be even happier once planted!  About half will go in this bed you can see here, and the other half will go in a new bed that is mirroring this one just across the way.  We got several more pots of bee balm, two of butterfly bush, quite a few of coneflowers that are a orange/yellow hue--not the regular purple that we have already, and three pots of something I cannot remember the name just now, but the orange/red flowers just to the right in the picture!  They are all looking so pretty, with just some water!  So this is another of my "secrets" for gardening frugally--check out stores for plants on the Clearance shelves!

Well--I truly thought I would be finishing our garden tour with this post, but I still have quite a few things to show and tell about, so I think we will need ONE more post to finish up. Or maybe two more.  Or possibly three?  I will try and not take three weeks to write up the next post, but no promises as I AM pretty busy!

Are you growing a garden in your yard?  If so, do you stick with all vegetables? Or do you mix in fruits and flowers along with it?  I would love to hear about your garden, and what you do to garden frugally!

Happy Gardening!

~Susan




Monday, May 27, 2019

Frugal Friday! Week of May 19-25, 2019



Hi Everyone!

Last week I shared a picture of my garden. I was amazed at how many people responded!  I mean, I love my garden, just as a parent loves their child even when they have smeared peanut butter and jelly all over their face, but I know only too well that my little garden is far from the garden that exists in my thoughts. . . you know, that garden where a weed never shows it's face, the weather is always delightful, no plants ever die and no "stingy things" as my daughter calls them would ever fly around and pester.  THAT garden!  My little back yard garden--or more specifically, side yard garden is unfortunately a far cry from THAT garden.  I told a friend who commented on my garden picture that when the weather becomes unbearably hot as it does tend to do here in Tennessee summers, I call over my shoulder "Fend for yourselves" as I run as fast as I can towards the air conditioned house!  I guess I am only a "sorta" devoted garden parent, not a "REAL" devoted garden parent!

But that said, I do enjoy my garden, and at the same time I also definitely am gardening frugally, so given the interest my garden picture generated I thought I would give a little "garden tour" this week. Now remember--this is NOT the garden you will find in Better Homes and Gardens magazines!  So I have warned you.  Be gentle. Don't say anything that might hurt my plants feelings.  You know they are listening, don't you?

To find my little garden, you would slip on a pair of the rubber garden shoes that live near my kitchen back door, and stroll into the back yard.  Hang an immediate left, and you will come to this pretty trellis that my sweet hubby built for me.  We WERE going to leave it just natural wood with a little stain on it, but THAT was before those nasty bees that drill their holes into wood found it and started drilling great long holes into it all over.  Bad bees!!!!  I read that they usually leave painted wood alone, so we filled the holes with calk and painted the trellis the closest brown paint color that I could find that looked sorta like the natural wood color that it was pre-paint.  Painting it wouldn't have been half bad, except that my giant rose bush had already had a season or two of growing up it, so it wasn't easy to remove the rose from the trellis without painting or breaking the rose--but for the most part we managed.  That, plus the fact that roses are fairly hardy.  Which is a good thing, when they come to live at MY house! ;).  My rose right now is rather lopsided and only on one side of the trellis.  That is because for a long time, there WAS only one rose growing up one side of it.  I had previously planned on putting a different color rose up the opposite side, but well, that never happened and besides that would mean that I needed to purchase another rose, and they are not cheap! So instead, I finally decided to stick a cutting from my current rose into a pot of dirt and see if it would root.  It did, and now I have a small rose bush of the same variety climbing up the opposite side of the trellis.  Give it a year or two more, and I suspect it will catch up with the other side! And happily, it was free--just needs a bit of patience for it to have a chance to grow.

In this picture taken this morning, this rose is really past it's prime.  But for the previous month, it has been just loaded with the most adorable, tiny, delicate blooms.  And yes--it is rather a mess up on top there. But even when I drag a ladder out, I still cannot properly reach and tame all that is growing on top, so I have decided to just embrace the mess and tell the rose how much I love it, and thank you for growing and not dying!

When you walk under the arbor, make sure you pause long enough to gaze up at the nest that is above your head.  And don't be scared by the rustle in the leaves as a bird takes flight. This is at least the third year in a row that we have had a cardinal nest in this arbor.  Smart bird.  If YOU could build your nest anywhere you wanted, wouldn't YOU choose a rose covered arbor?


Below is a picture of the arbor from a week or two ago, when it was still in full bloom. 

And this picture shows a close up of the sweet little blooms this rose grows. It is an unnamed variety, but is very old in origin.

Once you are through the arbor and finished trying to figure out if mama cardinal has babies in that nest yet or not, you come to the main part of our garden. Again, this is a work in progress, not by any means a finished perfect garden.  For a long time, our garden was simply a large rectangle covered with black plastic.  This is why you can see the patch there with no grass growing in it.  Because we are expanding our garden area a few beds each year, we are not doing anything about this bare spot because it will eventually be covered--or mostly covered--with more garden beds.  If there are any bare spots at that time, we can always get a bit of grass seed to fill in.  But for now, I just close my eyes as I pass by. . .

We have a HUGE bumper crop of bunnies each year.  That is probably what grows the very best in our garden!  Well, what grows best next to our garden anyway, because I am pretty sure that most of them are under those large bushes you can see in the picture behind the windmill in the above photo.  It is because of these that we have the bunny fencing around our garden beds.  As we add more beds each year, we just keep moving the little T posts and the bunny wire to surround the new beds.  But just look into those sweet deep brown eyes. . . don't you think they are worth all the trouble they cause us? 

And no, I do not feel guilty at all for fencing them out of our garden. After all, we grow them about an acre and a half of clover and other yummy weeds they can munch on!

As you can see in the previous garden photo, for right now, our garden gate is simply a large piece of rigid plastic that we slip between several T posts.  Eventually we hope to have something pretty for a gate, but for now we simply needed something that would come down to the ground and keep the above mentioned bunnies out.  So when my hubby found this piece of plastic hanging around in the basement and slipped it in, we have been using it for a couple years now and it works just fine!  That is part of gardening frugally--using what you have, and being creative.  Even if the item was not specifically made for the purpose you are now using it, if it works--and it is already paid for since you already have it, then that is what counts!



This first bed on our right is my new blackberry bed.  I am just putting this in this spring, so it is not well established yet.  This was one of the two new garden beds that my hubby built for me this spring.  These are not raised beds, but really just framed beds.  When he builds one for me, if there is grass there I ask if he will weed wack real short, and after he does then I take over with whatever I am going to put in that bed.  Almost all the rest of my garden was free this year, but when I saw these blackberries--thornless, and a compact growing variety--I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted to try them.  It is just for fun, as there is no way I can grow as many as our family would LIKE to eat.  But this is my hobby, and my hubby loves to build things with wood--so it is a hobby that he enjoys as well.  AND our teen age daughter loves this garden as well, and I would by far rather have her puttering out in the garden with me than any number of other things a teen girl "could" be up to these days. . . so when I came home from looking at this blackberry variety and told my husband about it, he looks at me and said "So BUY one!"  I did, and then of course wished I had a second one.  He looks at me and said that HE would buy a second one for me, and then I could be "mad" at him for spending money and not feel bad about it myself! ;). Of course I would not be mad, but I do tend to be the more frugal one, so together we make a good team! To my delight, when I went to plant the second blackberry bush that my husband "ordered" that I get, I found that it actually had a baby plant that had come up from the roots in the same pot.  So that was a frugal "Buy one bush, get a baby bush free" type of deal!  I had been hoping that over time I could get some more plants coming up from the roots, but it is really nice to start out with one!  I carefully separated it from the parent plant, and it is the tiny plant you can see in this picture in-between the two larger ones.  It is too soon to see if it will survive the transplant shock yet, but I am hoping good things for that baby!

You can also see in the picture how I help keep weeds down in my garden--my secret is cardboard I drag home for free from the grocery store (thank you Aldi's!), plus mulch.  After you plant your garden, a nice layer of cardboard and mulch will help smother all that grass and stuff that you just covered up, as well as break down over time and help feed your soil.  I do not own a tiller, and I do not plan on purchasing one either.  For my small garden, it is not necessary, and that way I do not have costs for gas or repairs either.



Just past my blackberry bed you will come to the raspberry bed.  This is new this year as well, thanks to a wonderful friend who invited my daughter and I to come over and dig up extra raspberry plants that were threatening to take over her entire garden.  So back in the winter, we hopped over to her house with a couple boxes and shovels and came back with these rather dead looking stick things.  I poked them in this empty garden bed, put down cardboard and mulch, and hoped for the best!  This spring, I was so excited to see new little leaves sprouting out on them!  They were alive!!!  Then we discovered we had a huge pine tree that was literally pulling out of the ground and would fall on our house. ;(.  A good friend offered to help us out, and came over and felled the tree for us--yea for wonderful friends!  Sadly, to have the tree not hit the house, that meant he had to take it down so that it would fall on the garden--smack dab across the raspberry bed!  But God blessed, the tree came down safely for both people and house, AND only some of the raspberry canes were snapped off from the tree landing on them.  Most of them survived just fine!  Yea!  So this is my free raspberry bed!


Here you can see both the new blackberry bed going in, as well as the already planted raspberry bed. I ran out of mulch this morning when I was mulching the blackberries, but I put what I had around the plants and will add more as I get some.  For now, the mulch that is there will still help keep moisture around the newly planted blackberries.


Continuing on from the raspberry bed we come to a tomato bed.  I am trying to rotate where the tomatoes get planted each year.  This helps cut down on soil-borne diseases that they can be prone to. This bed is filled with a variety called "Rutgers." I started them from leftover seeds that were several years old.  I wasn't sure if they would sprout or not--but they did!  So the plants were "free" since I already had the seeds, and the tomato cages we reuse year to year.  Even the black plastic in this bed was old leftover plastic from last year's garden.  Now I know what you are thinking--black plastic isn't going to break down and help feed my soil.  But remember, I DID tell you that mine is not a perfect garden, right?  The plastic helps keep weeds down, because I just do not have all day long to spend in the garden, and neither do my husband nor my daughter.  So black plastic nicely stands guard against weeds in the tomato beds! If the planting is more permanent, I try and mulch it.  But if it is an annual type of plant, I will often use black plastic.


After the Rutger tomatoes, we come to a small "connecter bed."  This was my brain storm last year, as I was trying to figure out how we could "frame" our entire garden area so we could bark the pathways to help keep weeds down.  having a few connecter beds that go between our larger beds did the trick nicely!  I just keep these small beds dirt without a mulch or black plastic in them.  Last year I grew a wonderful crop of lettuce in one of them.  They are just large enough to grow something, yet small enough that the weeds that come up are manageable.  This year, this bed here has a cherry tomato in the back with a trellis that we will tie it to, and some sunflowers in the front part of the bed.  I planted four sunflower seeds, but only three of them came up.  


This is the front corner bed in the garden, and is my daughter's perennial flower bed.  She wanted a place that she could plant whatever she wanted when she was quite a bit younger, so I gave her this bed.  Over the years she has had different things in it.  Currently you can see the pink primrose that is quite happy and taking over an entire half of her garden.  It would love to take over the entire garden, but she has decided she will give it a full half and whoever creeps over the half way line will get pulled!  She also has some Butterfly Weed that is almost ready to bloom, a purple Day Lily that has budded but is not blooming yet, some Shasta Daisys, Purple Coneflower, and two varieties of Coreopsis.


Next is another small connector bed that has two cherry tomatoes tucked in the back, and my daughter has planted two rows of zinnias in front.


Then the next large bed is my "Butterfly Bed."  I am currently putting cardboard down, and when I get more mulch will put that on top.  I have never mulched this bed before, and it needs it because I could use the help against the weeds that love this bed! This bed has Rue--an herb--growing in one half of it, and Butterfly Weed growing in the other half.  The Rue I started from seeds that I gathered from my Rue plant I had planted in my previous house in Texas.  I still remember the day I bought that original little tiny Rue plant, in a four inch pot from a Herb Farm in Fredericksburg Texas. I brought it home and planted it in hopes of it attracting butterfly caterpillars, since the tag said it was a host plant for several varieties.  The tag was right!  Swallowtails especially love it!  We have gathered countless Swallowtail caterpillars over the years, and raised them as part of our homeschool Science.  When I discovered we were moving to Tennessee, I collected a few tiny seeds from it and carried them with me here.  This is what people used to do--they couldn't always just go to the local plant nursery and buy new plants!  People took cuttings, shared seeds, etc. In a different part of my yard, I have a yellow rose that came from a cutting a friend gave me.  The lady who gave a cutting to my friend said that rose had crossed the country in a covered wagon with one of her relatives!  I love history like that!  The Butterfly Weed I grew from a packet of seeds several years ago, and it keeps reseeding and coming back.  I have hoped I would get a Monarch caterpillar on it as it is a host plant for them, but have not found one yet.  But scores of other butterflies stop by to feed on it so I am not disappointed in the least!


This adorable bird house is a new addition to the garden this year.  My daughter and husband built it and painted it for my birthday last summer--didn't they do a great job?  I think they did!  It has a sail boat on the other side, that you can't see in this picture.  I have caught a glimpse of a bird flying away from it several times already, but have not seen well enough to know for sure what type of bird has discovered it.

Well, I hope you are enjoying this garden tour!  It is getting bit long, and we are only half way through the garden, so I think I will continue this in a "Part 2" later on.  Do you garden?  If so, do you save seeds, receive pass a longs from friends, or purchase what catches your eye at a nursery?  I would love to hear about your garden!

~Susan








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